you got a very rare form of desync. i've seen it twice. the first was in a bot stomp on scheldt, the second was in a long as game on sittard. both times i know it happened because my assuie partner started complaining over voice chat about his units moving without him issuing orders. there were either not units at the spot he pinged or there were someone else's. his game ended up ending with us losing while the actual game ended 20-30 min later with our victory.
i asked here and got no responses.
http://www.coh2.org/topic/32949/divergent-reality-desyncs