Don't take allied games seriously, or play with friends, or play axis and have fun. Allies just too limited in strategy choices and too dependent on all players to know what they doing in any moment of the game.
He has a point, playing Allies with randoms is 100X more difficult than playing Axis with randoms. Playing Allies in 3 v 3+ takes more coordination with your team mates. I would suggest playing adding some really good players that you can be friendly with and play with them. To be honest, Inverse is right about wait time compare to COh1 and COh2.