I heard Stephenn say once he just quits once he makes a major mistake, because against good players you can't come back...I'm wondering if I should start doing that just to stop wasting so much time. But the problem then is I will downrank so much that I'll have to go through reams of noobs, who never seem to quit when they've clearly lost.
Yeah it takes something really silly for me to resign early though and it has set me pretty far behind. I do it primarily to just clear my mind, start fresh and go into a new game with solid mindset. Time isn't really a factor as to why I do this, however you could definitely say that by having a clear mind you use your time more efficiently and effectively.
On-topic though, personally I will always try my best to offer advice when someone asks. I do not feel as though there is a need to protect or hide strategical secrets. I much rather see the general skill level of all players improve, begin to grow the startegic depth of the game and hope players put their own twist on my advice. It is great to see someone adapt something, whether it be a tactical maneouvre, build order or unit positioning and it gives you new fresh ideas.
I understand, like some people have stated in this thread why people may hide their secrets. Eventually though people will always figure out ways to beat something and telling them the possible method only just makes it a bit easier for them. I basically taught CoH1 and CoH2 myself, learning most things from how my opponents functions, adding that to my own set of skills and hence never expect anything from my opponent. However, I always appreciated though when my opponent would answer my occasional questions. I know this sense of appreication, hence I will always respond to players.
If I detect one sense of disrespect or rage though I will most likely stop helping that individual. Raging clouds the minds thought process and being disrespectful gets you no where.