Don't know if you weren't reading, but the reason why people didn't use automatch were many. One of which was that lobbies existed and people tended to be directed to them. The concept of automatching was actually somewhat new and untried since console multiplayer wasn't as big a thing.
Another problem with CoH1 automatch was that the system fractured player pools many times over. First there was the split between Allies and Axis, then you would choose between 1v1, 2v2, 3v3, and 4v4 which were all separate pools of players.
CoH2 fixes most of that by letting players choose checkboxes for multiple modes, maximizing the number of players in each pool.
Bottom line is, you don't actually know how many people actually were happy with lobbies. What you have is anecdotal, and while many did have a positive experience, the vast majority did not. I'd wager real money that most people either don't care, or found lobbies appalling.
A vocal minority is still a minority, no matter how vocal. A few facebook posts doesn't equal a majority, or "going to new levels."
I did read what you wrote, but I am not sure if you realize that you are talking on behalf of huge community. Your theories and assumptions may not be correct, its only your opinion.
As far as majority and 'vocal minority' I don't have the data nor knowledge to say who is majority or minority. I know that most people who bought COH2 play exclusively skirmishes and campaign (trumping everyone else combined by huge margin) I know this because of info given by Relic (Noun)
I also know that there is a large number of players who don't want to play COH2 because of lack of Public custom games. (from hundreds and hundreds of threads on official COH page and even more so on Steam)
I also know that I have 3 friends (not game friends) who bought the game but wont play, for that reason. You won't find their opinion anywhere because they are not stalking forums like you and I.
There is also large proportion of players I used to play COH with, that don't want to cross over from COH....
Your points about Lobby misuse, are fair and correct in part. But you are completely oblivious or deliberately discounting many good and positive things that Lobby system provided and, I say again, I had a lot of fun and made a lot of game friends.
I raised my opinion with Relic/Noun and its up to them to decide what is best for the longevity of the game.
I know that I will get bored with 1v1 and team matches with randoms even faster. (Already barely tolerating it) But hey, common good should prevail. Even if it means disappointment for me.
